Honoring All Parents: A Special Mother’s Day Message

The Majority of People Who Have Abortions Are Already Parents

Did you know that the majority of individuals who seek abortions are already parents? In fact, most have given birth to at least one child, emphasizing that those who choose abortion are, more often than not, already navigating the responsibilities of parenthood (1).

To all the mothers, fathers, and parents who have made the personal decision to have an abortion — current and future — we see you, we respect you, and we send our love. Happy Mother’s Day from your supportive friends at oyrafem! We recognize that every individual who has made this choice did so based on what was best for their life, their future, and their family.

Celebrating the Strength of Parents and Their Choices

At oyrafem, we honor those who are raising children with love, guidance, and care. Pregnancy, birth, and parenthood are sacred decisions — and no one should face external interference, especially from anti-abortion lawmakers and extremists. The journey to parenthood is a brave one, and it should be a personal decision, free of pressure and judgment.

This Mother’s Day, we recognize all those who have chosen abortion for many important reasons. Whether it’s because the timing wasn’t right, to ensure they could best support the children they already have, or due to personal circumstances beyond their control, your choice is valid. We also extend our gratitude to Kristin, a courageous pro-abortion mother, for sharing her story in a touching tribute to her family and her decision. Her openness helps illuminate the emotional and personal experiences behind these life-altering choices, and we are honored to share her story.

Reproductive Justice: The Right to Choose

Reproductive justice, as defined by SisterSong, is the “human right to maintain personal bodily autonomy, have children, not have children, and parent the children we have in safe and sustainable communities (2).” The ability to decide if, when, and how to grow your family is at the core of reproductive justice, and everyone deserves access to compassionate and comprehensive abortion care.

At oyrafem, we strongly believe in the right for families to live and raise their children in a world that supports them, free from the oppressive forces of white supremacy, climate change, economic exploitation, ableism, and other forms of injustice. Our vision for the future is one of liberation and freedom for all families, and this Mother’s Day, we celebrate that goal.

Supporting Parents Means Supporting Abortion Access

The right to decide when and how to start a family is a crucial part of supporting parents. We believe that everyone deserves the freedom to choose their own reproductive path. Supporting mothers means supporting abortion access and the right to determine the best timing for parenthood. If you’re interested in helping mothers and families in making these crucial decisions, consider donating to oyrafem here.

Happy Mother’s Day to all the incredible mothers and parents, including those who have had abortions. You are valued, and we thank you for your strength, resilience, and love.

P.S. Need abortion care, birth control, or STI testing and treatment? Or know someone who does? You can schedule an appointment with oyrafem here.